Deep roots make lasting family ties
My mother’s roots
came from Kentucky. Beginning
forefathers were named Childers and Hammock.
One of my most memorable stories my mother would tell me is when her
grandfather, who was the Sheriff of Rock Castle County, was gunned down on the
porch of a church where he was hanging his guns before he entered the church
service. I have tried to visualize that
day so many times.
Since I was a
child, the Childers and Hammocks celebrated Memorial Day at the cemetery in Middletown,
Ohio. I remember my great aunts
decorating the graves and sharing stories of their loved ones. As a child, I loved listening to my
ancestor’s antics and accomplishments.
After singing some hymns accompanied by guitar and banjo picking uncles
and cousins, we would go to Armco Park and have an all day picnic. Apple stack cakes, fresh green beans with ham
hocks, scalloped potatoes, crisp country friend chicken, creamy potato salad,
home made breads, and collard greens were just part of the menu. It was one of my favorite holidays because of
the stories, the food, and the banjos. I
loved singing old hymns with my family.
There were so many cousins that came from Cincinnati, Washington DC, and
nearby areas that I could not know all of them.
Since mom was one of nine children, there were many first and second
cousins.
This memorial day
we gathered in Springboro, Ohio at my cousin Billy Hammock’s farm. It is no longer a family tradition to go to
the cemetery. Younger cousins don’t even
understand how important decorating family graves were in the 50’s and
60’s. Yet, our family still comes together
to share wonderful food, tell stories,
chase little cousins, calm crying babies, and gather on the porch to hear Billy
tell tales of our families who fought in the wars to maintain our freedom. Civil War stories are the best when Billy
recounts the roles of our relatives in the war. Names like Enoch, Eli, and Levi
are repeated through the generations. It
is still a blessing to gather together, to pray together, and sing those old
hymns. Tears stand in eyes as we share
stories of recent aunts and uncles and cousins who have gone on to be with
Jesus. It is a blessing to have deep
roots in our family but our deepest and sustaining roots are in Jesus of Nazareth.
The featured photo
is a 1913 gathering of brothers and their dad.
It is obvious there is dramatic flair back then. I cherish this old photo because it shares
some of my family’s other interest. (Snickering by me) So, as in any family, there is tomfoolery and
partying as well as the deep roots that have kept us celebrating Memorial Day
together.